Why Speaking Up is your Master key to Success!
In the past, I would often shy away from asking questions and sharing my opinions. Then, I would curse myself for not speaking up because someone else would ask the same question or make a similar point I had in my mind. My ideas and suggestions would often be good but they never saw the light of day. Fear of being judged, ridiculed or rejected were some of the root causes of me not being able to share my views.
As a result, I often got tagged as someone who was indecisive and a leader who had no views.
So, why do most of us shy away from sharing our views or expressing ourselves freely?
This happens because we swallow and suppress our fears and unpleasant experiences. These unprocessed thoughts and emotions stay inside our body (especially the throat area) and the cellular memory. This adversely affects our cognition, ability to articulate our thoughts and overall productivity. Thus pushing us into the endless loop of guilt. Does this sound familiar to you?
It is a painful situation to be in. The only way to get yourself out of this constant loop of guilt is to start connecting and expressing your emotions in a healthy way. Here are some reasons why speaking up is your “Gurukilli” (aka master key) to success.
# 1 It is your “birthright” to speak and be heard – if you don’t speak up no one else would. You are meant to express and experience your emotions, thoughts and life. Expressing yourself freely will unleash your capabilities and help you define your personal path to success.
# 2 Boosts your self-worth and confidence – inability to process emotions and thoughts also is a result of low self-worth. As you start connecting to your thoughts and emotions you will gradually see a shift in your perception about the self.
# 3 Enhances your Credibility and Influencing capacity – when you start listening to your thoughts and feelings you enhance your capabilities of sharing your thoughts and feelings with the world. You start inspiring the people around you.
# 4 Unleashes Happiness and Freedom – speaking strengthens your “urja” (energy) and cleanses your aura. You are no longer bound by your limiting beliefs and fears. You have mastered the art of processing your thoughts and feelings and learnt to express yourself freely. This unleashes happiness and freedom from within.
All said and done, it’s your life and you need to give yourself the permission to express yourself freely.
Note: I am A-Key (Akki) to Cultivating a Calm & Peaceful emotional state through the SOULISTIC (Mind-Body-Soul) approach. DM on +91-97698 69902 to know more about the SOULISTIC approach and schedule a FREE 30-min call.
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